I gained another troll you all. Instead of Jim Burns our resident black man. We have a new one in our mist who goes by the moniker, “A Black Man”. (Although considering, this could actually be the same man)
At the moment since I already have a resident black man I find “A Black Man” extraneous on my blog. would have deleted his comments (which I will still do in the future. ) But at this moment I find the need to use his sad comments to prove the point that I’ve been saying for the past two years.
What did “A black man” have to say?
Well “a black man” had a problem with My post : “If white men pump and dump black women, Black men pump and dump black women”.
Here is what he had to say in response to my post.
A black man:
Submitted on 2013/05/12 at 5:14 am
You are really espousing this “blame black men, envy white women, worship white men” ideology that just makes me shake my head. I hope you get a white boyfriend or husband and stop polluting the internet with your self hating rants. Now if you excuse me, I’m going back to my black family, black woman and black kids.
Then goes further later on,
And finally when he realizes that I’m not responding directly to him he decides to say. ( I deleted his comment)
Now I’m not a fortune teller, I’m not. My intuition is only a result of the literature and websites that I’ve read by black women before me, and from countless hours studying this and seeing it in real life, I gleaned that because of intersectionality, it means that while other groups continue to move upwards, intersectionality dictates that black women will not be among those who benefit.
I’ve said numerous times that because of gender black women will not be able to benefit from the civil rights movements or the feminist movement simply because white women continue to benefit from racial privilege and black men continue to have gender privilege.
I always knew that this fact was easily seen and observable like the phases of the moon.
You may wonder why I’ve decided to even humor “a black man” well I want you, my readers to see how the application of this theory holds in real life.
Let’s look at his first comment.
You see his first comment is his classic attempt to shame me into shutting my mouth. ( He immediately comes out with the “worship white men” “envy” white women” “shame”black man ) trope that’s as overused as pies in faces on badly written comedy show.
https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/09/09/black-women-shaming-101/ ( I pointed out this type of things in this post)
I want black women to note that when black women step out of line and point out the racism of white women ( and we all know they have the potential to be) That then black men like this have a problem. A big one. Suddenly the laws of fighting against racism don’t exist. I’m jealous.
I also want to point out that its okay for black men like this to fight for black power and not be deemed “jealous or envious of white men because as I said “a black man” has gender privilege that automatically deems his “pain” his suffering at the hands of “the white man” as the most important. Also note that as I said because of the fact that white women have racial privilege they escape prosecution from their dirty dealings even by black men.
I want to point out that when black women show that black men are just as equal as white men. Then its called worshiping white men.
Remember in “a black mans” world for black men to get their unilateral ideas of “black power” it relies on the idea that black women and black men “unify” against “the white man”. Which means I’m supposed to be angry and pissed all the time and be spooked that they might hurt me. Although I should be alright with the sexism in the black community and sexism by “a black man” himself and men like him.
I should also close my mouth when he aligns with white men at this moment to exert his gender privilege which he thinks grants him the right to dismiss my unique experience being a black woman who faces gender bias and racial bias because I am a woman.
He is also attempting to use my pointing out the worldview of white women as automatically desirable and how unfair it is as a way to make it seem as if I somehow don’t like myself and think white women are superior.
See black power ( like feminism) can only work if they have a privilege to keep them equal to white men. In this case “ a black man” doesn’t mind strutting his full male privilege and throwing “ envy “ in my face. He also has the privilege of calling out white men who are also men like himself without being called self-hating. I remember in a post before I said that the gender privilege that black men have and the racial privilege that white women have would be like a gun pointed at the backs of black women. And it’s safe to say that I was right. I also said that that privilege would not be given up. The trigger would be pulled.
I was right about that too. I will finally point out that in the unilateral world of black men, black women are supposed to align with anyone black activists or white feminists decide is the ‘ enemy” no questions asked. and like I said the shaming will come out in full force. Because in the “ black community” I’m supposed to be angry at white men while allowing black men and white women to get away Scott free.
Hypocritical but entirely true.
Well I’m not buying that readers.
I will continue to point out intersectionality and how detrimental that can be to black women if they don’t choose wise alignments.
To “ A black man” I say thanks for giving my readers real life application of intersectionality theory. But I’ve blocked you. Enjoy your unilateral life.
To my readers I say don’t be deterred. You can’t afford to be. I can’t afford to be. Don’t be shamed.
You deserve to align with people who have you best interests at heart. Not to accept what other people have a problem with and take the dregs.
Do not let men like this shame you out of speaking out in real life or making your plans.
Keep on keeping on.
As I know I will.
If that means I’m chasing “ slavemaster penis” in the mind of delusiods like him well then, oh well.
His opinion, his existence is just a drop in the world’s bucket.
Until next Time,
Ps. “A black Man” has been blocked. He will not poison this blog which I have set up for black women.