I don’t know if you have ever seen or heard the song Welcome To The Black Parade my My Chemical Romance but hot off the heels of the Lil Reese Debacle this song immediately came to mind when I read some of the videos concerning responses to this incident. Of course as usual and as to be expected too many black men responded to this video trying to justify this mess but further some of the comments that I’ve read around the blogosphere and some of the Youtube videos that I’ve see are just plain despicable.
But it was one comment in particular on a clutch magazine article condemning the rapper that made my stomach churn.
I don’t like the vid, and I don’t stand by dude’s actions.
Women that deserve & earn respect, get respect. The best way to get respect is to have strong men in your corner that will defend & protect you if you deal with someone who is physically more powerful than you,
It also helps to have guns, martial arts, etc.
I am with @Billy on this one.
I will not throw my life away for black women who don’t find me s*xually desirable until they get old, washed baby mammas.
I will not throw my life away for women who want to be “equals”, and they make make more money than me, and the white man is their so called “Ace In The Hole” (police, welfare & corporate jobs.)
In order for black women to be defended & protected, they gotta choose better men, and get back in pocket.
Otherwise you itches are on your own.
This is the type of stuff I have come to expect from most black men (and a lot of black women in the black community) These people like to pretend that there is justification for these psychopathic, antisocial behaviors. Like most sociopaths they use like to use mental techniques and games to get you to bend they way they want you to go and you give them the results that they so desperately crave.
A lot of these people, who are claiming that the black woman in the lil reese video was a hoodrat, “ran her mouth” “put her hands on him first”(although the video clearly shows otherwise) or that she “deserved it because she was acting like a man” or that she was goaded him. Or the people that simply DO NOT CARE like the man above are the WALKING DEAD. REPEAT: THEY ARE THE WALKING DEAD!!! These people clearly know that these excuses are not right that the reasons that they give are flimsy, or if they just don’t care at all, that their calm acceptance of human abuse is fine and okay dokey the are sociopaths!
See the people who give excuses to explain away obvious violence are deviant behavior are fully aware that what they are saying is false. But like any sociopath they are manipulative and are using your responses as a means to an end.
WHAT DO THEY WANT WITH ME?
This is the question that you are probably asking yourself. as you scratch your head in wonder. As in the picture above they want you to join their army. They want to pull you down and suck the life out of you and once they have they want you to join the army they’ve created and use you as a means to an end. Because you can’t control people who resist can you?
They need you to join their parade because they need you so they can get you to do the things that they so crave. And honestly its not about the results they get from controlling you its about the power these black men feel of being able to put these black women in their place. It’s the satisfaction they have knowing that you are vulnerable and that once you join them in the gutter they can keep you malleable. These people don’t care about societies rules and like any good sociopath flout them to get whatever they want. Like this man above in the comments who gives his reasons of why he wouldn’t help a black woman who was getting stomped to death is giving his reasons. He is using obviously flawed rationality but that doesn’t matter he needs you to fight with him needs you to believe that he is worth saving and that he can be reasoned with and some common ground can be found. They are looking for someone to snare in their trap because that way they can get to work and begin to manipulate your mind.
That is the entire point. They NEED YOU TO ENGAGE. They need to have you in a (as other bloggers have pointed out) a conversation loop.
Could you imagine if you actually gave up on these people. Why, *gasp* they would have no parade no army, nobody to lead to damnation with them.
But you have to resist this. Because I know in the black community black women have the tendency to engage dbr black men because they feel an obligation to save their “fallen” black “comrades” Truly a lot of black women have been sufficiently pulled into the army and will have a hard time (if ever) of slipping away.
Black women these are tricks you are being had, tricked, played. These men are charlatans. You do not owe them anything! You do not have to stay in the obviously abusive black community and join their BLACK PARADE. YOU can leave. Walk away and never look back. RESIST the draw and the lure (and I know that it’s strong.) Don’t let yourself be tricked.
Here are the common signs of a sociopath. (Taken from Wikipedia)
- failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest;
- deception, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure;
- impulsiveness or failure to plan ahead;
- irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults;
- reckless disregard for safety of self or others;
- consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;
- lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another;
These men who are applauding abuse deserve your condemnation! Further than that if you find that YOUR stay in the black community has led you down a path where you are wading through an army of zombies you have the RIGHT to walk away and never come back. You are not obliged because of race, sex, age. Or ANYTHING ELSE to support a community that is full of these deviants. It is imperative that you leave behind the duties that you might feel you have to take up for the broken and flawed black community but you can live your life neutrally and without being a puppet for them.
Don’t let them make you another one of their army. Identify these beasts and swiftly take your leave! FLEE!
On a final more positive note. As I was saying above I don’t know if you have ever heard the song Welcome to the Black Parade. Ironically unlike these pictures the song lyrics are pretty inspiring and I really love the band. So I’m posting the video below. (Song starts slow and then picks up at around 1:48) Enjoy!
(no copyright infringement intended)