SING!!

*NOTE* This will be my last post for the next couple of weeks or so. I feel that it’s for the best that I give myself a break so I can mentally recharge. In the meantime at the end of the article I will be listing past posts that I think you should look at during my absence.*

 

Regular Post…

Keeping in theme with the My Chemical Romance song from last post, I was also recently listening to another song by them that I also find completely inspiring.  The song encourages people to open their mouths and sing.

I really think that this is something that black women should really listen to and take to heart. For black women I know that it seems inherent but really it’s been pushed on black women since birth to close their mouths and except whatever they’ve been given.  And usually it’s always for the good of someone who means to do them harm. (See article linked below where Russel Simmons? ( speaks on lil reese matter)

Not only are black women trained like show dogs to keep their mouths closed against their best interests I see a lot of times that certain groups like to lobby for things that not only go directly against black women’s interests but can end up deadly for black women.

For examples I like to think of how feminists like to encourage casual sex, abortions,  (NOTE: I’m not judging or saying this is wrong or that I’m against it, only that white feminists push something that black women are more likely to be the recipient of, even if, under different circumstances that may not be their first choice. My whole point is black women don’t have OPTIONS), single parenthood, hip hop culture, career over family etc. And then these same women encourage black women to keep their mouths closed because it isn’t “nice” or “politically correct” to “racialize” such matters.

These groups also love to tell black women that it’s “not just a black woman problem” re: street harassment, domestic abuse” etc. Effectively keeping black women from opening their mouths and speaking on the hurt and pain that is being inflicted upon them.

These are the people who are really giving our abusers a gun, loading it for them and then pulling the trigger to. These people, who seek to silence black women when they are hurting, are charlatans not only are they charlatans but they are cowards. Because these same people who encourage black women to be silenced for whatever reason know that they won’t have to deal with our problems.

For example the women who excuse and coddle hip hop culture are the same women who go to their safe neighborhoods after all is said and done and don’t have to feel the effects of what they’ve encouraged. While these women may claim that hip hop culture is just an act, black women know differently but time and time again black women effectively go along with this spare everyone’s feeling act.

They may also be the people encouraging casual sex without realizing that the black women who listen to this (against their better judgment) are more likely to get an STD from their partner or be abandoned when they become pregnant.

These people like to speak from a perspective they are not required (and wouldn’t want) to have. They can talk about matters they don’t know while still keeping themselves safe from natural retributions.(It’s one of the reasons why I only rolled my eyes at feminist reactions to lil reese video. While they think rappers are playing around aka creating an image, black women know that these men are actually the dregs of society and behind closed doors they are actually abusing us)

Of all the things that black women could do to effectively put themselves in a coffin and nail it shut is silence themselves. We saw how at least black women got Russell Simmons attention when black women ( and everyone else ) rose a stink after that video came out.

It shows that if more black women keep talking about their own narrative black women can actually get somewhere. It is one of the reasons why I will never stop talking. Because I know once I stop talking I’ll be relegated to the background and once there I will never be able to get away.

I also know that to keep speaking I have to effectively distance myself from two movements that mean to close my mouth. I have to stay neutral because only then can I make decisions that will help me the most.

I have said it before in the past that the ONLY course of action that black women have is to stay neutral not only because to parties that *claim* to be on black women’s side can defend themselves but also because each side goes against the other forcing black women to cut off their own limbs.

Further while each side ( the black community and the feminist community) have the potential to do irreparable damage to black women. They have the power to keep black women’s mouths shut while they peddle their own agendas.

If as black women we want to keep our own hopes for living well alive we MUST MUST MUST. SING. Even if they use guilt tactics or shame.

On that, I leave you with the video of Sing by My Chemical Romance. And below this video some video links I think you should read before I return. ( The links are listed most important to least important)

(No copyright infringement intended)

Until Next Time,

Stay Neutral

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/10/black-women-strategically-neutral-and-my-new-blog/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/12/the-birth-of-the-black-feminist-paradox/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/10/the-conundrum-of-black-feminism-explained-further/

 

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/08/18/escaping-the-feminist-labyrinth/

 

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/09/09/black-women-shaming-101/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/23/all-the-women-are-white-all-the-blacks-are-men-the-beautiful-wondrous-redux/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/10/05/extreme-jihading-black-women-edition/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/22/fools-idiots-morons-and-those-who-are-too-stupid-to-live-please-read-this-post/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/12/girls-chris-rock-and-the-sweet-sweet-unnoticed-irony/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/07/14/when-to-gtfo-a-conversation/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/10/30/welcome-to-the-black-parade/

https://notyourgirlfriday.wordpress.com/2012/10/27/you-can-series-1-you-can-be-stop-being-politcally-correct-or-you-can-die/

 

 

 

 

Welcome To the Black Parade!!!

I don’t know if you have ever seen or heard the song Welcome To The Black Parade my My Chemical Romance but hot off the heels of the Lil Reese Debacle this song immediately came to mind when I read some of the videos concerning responses to this incident. Of course as usual and as to be expected too many black men responded to this video trying to justify this mess but further some of the comments that I’ve read around the blogosphere and some of the Youtube videos that I’ve see are just plain despicable.

But it was one comment in particular on a clutch magazine article condemning the rapper that made my stomach churn.

Eric

October 29, 2012 at 1:49 am

I don’t like the vid, and I don’t stand by dude’s actions.

Women that deserve & earn respect, get respect. The best way to get respect is to have strong men in your corner that will defend & protect you if you deal with someone who is physically more powerful than you,

It also helps to have guns, martial arts, etc.

I am with @Billy on this one.

I will not throw my life away for black women who don’t find me s*xually desirable until they get old, washed baby mammas.

I will not throw my life away for women who want to be “equals”, and they make make more money than me, and the white man is their so called “Ace In The Hole” (police, welfare & corporate jobs.)

In order for black women to be defended & protected, they gotta choose better men, and get back in pocket.

Otherwise you itches are on your own.

This is the type of stuff  I have come to expect from most black men (and a lot of black women in the black community) These people like to pretend that there is justification for these psychopathic, antisocial behaviors. Like most sociopaths they use like to use mental techniques and games to get you to bend they way they want you to go and you give them the results that they so desperately crave.

A lot of these people, who are claiming that the black woman in the lil reese video was a hoodrat, “ran her mouth” “put her hands on him first”(although the video clearly shows otherwise) or that she “deserved it because she was acting like a man” or that she was goaded him. Or the people that simply DO NOT CARE like the man above are the WALKING DEAD.  REPEAT: THEY ARE THE WALKING DEAD!!!  These people clearly know that these excuses are not right that the reasons that they give are flimsy, or if they just don’t care at all, that their calm acceptance of human  abuse is fine and okay dokey the are sociopaths!

See the people who give excuses to explain away obvious violence are deviant behavior are fully aware that what they are saying is false. But  like any sociopath they are manipulative and are using your responses as a means to an end.

WHAT DO THEY WANT WITH ME?

This is the question that you are probably asking yourself. as you scratch your head in wonder. As in the picture above they want you to join their army. They want to pull you down and suck the life out of you and once they have they want you to join the army they’ve created and use you as a means to an end. Because you can’t control people who resist can you?

They need you to join their parade because they need you so they can get you to do the things that they so crave. And honestly its not about the results they get from controlling you its about the power these black men feel of being able to put these black women in their place. It’s the satisfaction they have knowing that you are vulnerable and that once you join them in the gutter they can keep you malleable.  These people don’t care about societies rules and like any good sociopath flout them to get whatever they want. Like this man above in the comments who gives his reasons of why he wouldn’t help a black woman who was getting stomped to death is giving his reasons. He is using obviously flawed rationality but that doesn’t matter he needs you to fight with him needs you to believe that he is worth saving and that he can be reasoned with and some common ground can be found. They are looking for someone to snare in their trap because that way they can get to work and begin to manipulate your mind.

That is the entire point. They NEED YOU TO ENGAGE. They need to have you in a (as other bloggers have pointed out) a conversation loop.

Could you imagine if you actually gave up on these people. Why, *gasp* they would have no parade no army, nobody to lead to damnation with them.

But you have to resist this.  Because I know in the black community black women have the tendency to engage dbr black men because they feel an obligation to save their “fallen” black “comrades”  Truly a lot of black women have been sufficiently pulled into the army and will have a hard time (if ever) of slipping away.

Black women these are tricks you are being had, tricked, played. These men are charlatans.  You do not owe them anything! You do not have to stay in the obviously abusive black community and join their BLACK PARADE. YOU  can leave. Walk away and never look back.   RESIST the draw and the lure (and I know that it’s strong.) Don’t let yourself be tricked.

Here are the common signs of a sociopath. (Taken from Wikipedia)

  1. failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest;
  2. deception, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure;
  3. impulsiveness or failure to plan ahead;
  4. irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults;
  5. reckless disregard for safety of self or others;
  6. consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;
  7. lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another;

These men who are applauding abuse deserve your condemnation! Further than that if you find that YOUR stay in the black community has led you down a path where you are wading through an army of zombies you have the RIGHT to walk away and never come back. You are not obliged because of race, sex, age. Or ANYTHING ELSE to support a community that is full of these deviants. It is imperative that you leave behind the duties that you might feel you have to take up for the broken and flawed black community but you can live your life neutrally and without being a puppet for them.

Don’t let them make you another one of their army. Identify these beasts and swiftly take your leave! FLEE!

On a final more positive note. As I was saying above I don’t know if you have ever heard the song Welcome to the Black Parade. Ironically unlike these pictures the song lyrics are pretty inspiring and I really love the band.  So I’m posting the video below. (Song starts slow and then picks up at around 1:48) Enjoy!

(no copyright infringement intended)

You Can Series #1 : You Can Be Stop Being Politcally Correct OR You Can Die

I’m going to get really series today. No Jokes and No Sarcasm.  Because it is imperative that I get as many people as possible to listen to my warnings. It is absolutely imperative that black women shuck the politically correct jacket and put on something that is actually going to protect them from the harsh realities of life. Because at this point black women are literally walking into their own destruction.

Similar to when I just wrote about Jihading for causes that would be the death of them. In this case I am being completely literal.

I want black women to take a look at this video below.  Warning it is graphic and violent.

If you’ve watched it, You must be as disgusted as I am. But I hope that this video of this young “boy” beating the shit out of his children’s mother and then stomping on her head rings home a few truths that black women are now willing to accept.

#1 Black women are not going to be protected ALMOST ANYWHERE in the black community. This is a forum for black women and black women first so I’m going to be completely blunt. If not trying to appease Hitler like black people(who we all know have seized the larger black community in a death grip around their collective throats),   MOST sane black women should honestly be able to admit that this is NOT an exaggeration or a one off. This happens daily over the US. Let’s be honest and say that most black men are NOT going to protect MOST black women. This video is yet another clear example of groups of people standing around and letting black women be the brutal victims of attacks by men who should know better.

Let’s be honest here  and say that even if there are  “Good Black Men” who sit behind their anonymous computer screens somewhere in the US these men are not the ones MOST black women get the chance to encounter. Let’s be honest and say black women are prey in the black community.  Let’s also swallow the initial, trained response in us to defend the “Black community” and truthfully admit that the guards who were supposed to be guarding half of the occupants in the black community did a deplorable job.  Not only this but. IF I’m going to take of the politically correct glasses. I’ll admit that the guards didn’t WANT to protect black women because they truly JDGAF.

You know, I know, and by now the rest of the world knows that black women have been played and continue to be played.

I’m telling you this because its something you need to accept.  Forget what you’ve been told about being “Divisive “and falling for the “white man’s games to divide and conquer”. This is your LIFE we’re talking about! NOBODY is going to save it for you.

You may be thinking. “This can’t happen to me. I’d never let that happen” or you may even be falling for certain groups propaganda about not painting all men with a “broad brush”they guilt you into not perpetrating stereotypes. But remember these people not only have a broader pool of men to choose from they also have police that are more willing to prosecute people who perpetrate against them.  YOU DON”T. This isn’t being defeatist. This isn’t stereotyping this is being smart.  Because somewhere along the line while these good black men are condemning the crap like this that goes on some black woman is being ABUSED because they weren’t able to say NO  without feeling guilt and shame for being divisive or using “Stereotypes.”

`           I’m amazed that some people are so shocked to see this on tape. From a rapper! Which to me makes shake my head at the idiocy and naiveté  of these people . Because as they just thought this was “play acting” black women have always known that these violent aggressive lyrics, were basically the confession letter to the criminal lives they’re actually living. But these people are now surprised that the words are  no longer “just a joke”. But now they’re faced with the reality that it’s true. Further they’re just so shocked that through the politically correct bullshit that this boy didn’t even express any remorse for what he’d done! And worse they don’t even realize that for this guy to get away scott free, to be able to keep his record deal and even get lauded by delusional black men is the NORM.

Hell in the video below Jay Z actually punches a woman.  It’s on video! And yet these politically correct people are too naive and frankly selfish to call an ace and ace. But I’m not.  I’m going to tell the truth and be damned with certain agendas that are using black women as a lab rat for their politically correct agendas. Because the truth is that black women at this point in their lives  have more to fear from the black men in their lives than from the average white man who black men are spooked by.

Not only do they have more to fear from black men who can maim and almost kill them with impunity they also should be fearful of the people who don’t want black women to point this out. Because YOU could be the one hit. Think about this even if you believe that these creeps are in the minority trust, that SOMEONE is going to be in the minority. Even if there is only a 1 in 10 billion chance of winning the lottery somebody ALWAYS win. And in this case do you want it to be you?

I remember reading a couple of years ago old posts by one BWE blogger (I’m not sure who) who said they should avoid gatherings in the black community with overwhelming numbers of black men because of the violence that ensures and puts black women in danger. And honestly at the time I thought it was an extreme suggestion. But now I have to change my mind. Because even if most black men in these situations aren’t going to hit you.  There is NOBODY who is going to be willing to protect you.  In the video below this woman who is on the stage with Gucci Mane is surrounded by men and when she gets pushed not one of them tries to help.

http://www.truecrimereport.com/2010/01/rapper_gucci_mane_sucker_punch.php

Recipe for disaster

1 group of violent black male thugs

1 woman who won’t be protected

1 society that doesn’t value police intervention

Add a dash of misogyny.

Add a pinch of black female hatred.

1 drop of political correctness that favors black men

And you’ve got a delicious plate of black female subjugation.

And let’s be honest other groups of women don’t have our ah… unique … recipe so they won’t necessarily come out with a plate of disaster that we do.

I’m not saying that every black man wants to be the shit out of you. I’m saying that you can’t trust random men at random gatherings to care or protect you especially in this society.

Black women, take the trust that has been so effectively been implanted into your head and remove it!

A note to women specifically in college

This is another thing that young black women need to hear because honestly don’t understand most people’s trust in other random people.  Of any race. I have to admit that I don’t and never have understood the college students who are so willing to get drunk with their “friends” or even acquaintances at a party. And  I certainly don’t understand black women who are usually even more prey to do something like this.

The last thing black women need to do is allow themselves to lose their sanity with alcohol in public spheres where it is extremely easy to take advantage of women especially since not only do black people NOT self police they also don’t  CALL The police and they also don’t mind taking advantage of black women.

In all honestly that’s one of the reasons I don’t have sex. At all. Because the risk of being with a deadbeat is just too strong.  I’m not giving myself out to anyone especially with the deadbeats who get free rain. And if black women were wise they’d keep their legs closed because their victimization is not going to be heard.

Final Note

I believe from all of this that black women need to isolate themselves social until they can get in greater society where they are not going to be abused without the perpetrators being called out.  I think that black who are in these dangerous set should consider a sort of social isolation ( not socializing with these groups) until they can get out and away.  You must choose to either let the weight of social groups keep you from staying safe or you can walk away and

Extreme Jihading: Black Women Edition

I’m sure you can probably guess what this post is going to be about. (Yes most likely this will be a long one,LOL)

I’ve noticed, and it isn’t the first time, among black women this alarming tendency to be a jihadist. What do I mean exactly? I mean that black women have the habit of behaving in ways that are absolutely without a doubt suicidal. But not only are the dangerous behaviors that these black women display, suicidal, there is an added element that  black women actually think they are making some sort of sacrifice that, although it will ultimately lead to their death (figuratively and literally) they still do it because they think they are going to receive some sort of reward afterwards.

How do they do this? Well that’s what I’m going to address right now.  Hopefully by the end  all of the ways black women knowingly or unknowingly jihad are brought to attention so more and more black women can either stop before it’s too late or step far away from the black women who refuse to see sense.

For starters the most extreme cases of jihad-ing come when black women associate themselves with groups that obviously don’t have their interests in mind. You already know by now which communities are all too happy to watch black women sacrifice themselves for their cause so I won’t be redundant in naming them.  Instead I will simply name the behaviors I’ve spotted.

Act of Jihad #1,2,3 : These include defending the modern feminist movement despite all evidence that certain ideals held by white feminists are NOT working for the average black women. (or even the average white woman for that matter.)

Examples?

# 1 Casual Sex- Black women defend left and right feminists push for casual sex and hook ups as “Freedom” and “empowering” and “Getting to know your body” even though for black women who already have an image in the gutter this can be the final nail in the coffin. Because along with being every other stereotype under the sun black women are now labeled as whores and sluts which while it can also be damaging to our white counterparts , they have the social backing to keep them from being fully persecuted socially.

Don’t be fooled: The women can “afford” to have casual sex. To be blunt these women are going to be exposed to a different type of man than the average black women. While the woman that white feminists are sexing are likely to  be college educated (or getting an education)  and family oriented …ALOT of black women aren’t afforded the same opportunities. For example two of my female cousins took this route and their life is in shambles. One of my cousins has 2 kids out of wedlock with two different men (one of whom is in jail the other idk where he is) while my other cousin who had been living with her boyfriend just had a baby.  (Which would be okay but the baby wasn’t planned, my cousin isn’t in college and doesn’t have a very stable job and she recently moved back home with her mother signalling that things weren’t going well with them.)

Now you may be thinking “Black women should pick better mates”. Which sounds great in theory but is the exact mentality that has black women jihading. Woman , any woman can only date the men within their radius. If you live in the projects chances are the only men you’ll be exposed to are the irresponsible men who inhabit there also. They simply wont have the opportunity to find responsible family minded men. Or at the very least men who won’t jump ship if you get pregnant  So it is simply a smart strategic move to keep your legs closed. (Let’s not even mention the sexual irresponsibility in the black community when it comes to STD’s which is a BIG hazard also.) But too many women have decided that to be “empowered” means to Jihad themselves for a cause that is simply not relevant to their place in the world.

Example #2

Black women easily jump at the chance to prove themselves unfeminine career minded black women who want to unchain themselves from conforming to being a lady. Little do these women realize or care, that they have never in most of society been considered “a lady”  (I’m feeling lesson in instersectionality coming on) simply because they are BLACK women. So for black women to reject anything that is traditionally feminine is simply insane because unlike white feminists who again are not penalized as harshly black women effectively cut off their nose to spite their face

This also falls in line with the black women who are dutifully happy to take and support roles that make black women look stupid (see Amber Riley glee) or how dumb black women were also happy to fall in line with the women who thought Jennifer Hudson should have kept on the weight. These women are so happy to support the same cause that will be the death of them socially because now black women can’t escape that role (see prescious) and white women and other races aren’t the ones who will be forced into them. (and if they are it will be equally balanced with white women or other races of women who have their image intact and fit into the mold thereby cementing their totem pole hierarchy.) Meanwhile black women are sitting at the bottom with a cause while everyone else is skinning and grinning down at them from their perch while congratulating them on being so “brave”:  (There was a post on acts of faith and love blog about this very thing. I will try to find it.)
Example # 3

The pool of dating for black women is extremely shallow.  And yet many black women jihad every day to prove to the feminist movement that they “don’t need a man”  “want to establish a career first” yadda yadda yadda.  And yet when black women get to their thirties black women realize suddenly that all that mumbo jumbo about being a career woman is malarkey and are desperate to catch the train to marriage town, USA before its too late.  But the damage has been done because while they’ve furthered the cause now they already slim pool of marriageable men has virtually disappeared and black women are left out.

(Note: I am NOT in any way saying having a career is wrong  but putting it above all else is extremely problematic. Having a career if that is what you want is nothing wrong putting it first to prove a point is just plain stupid.)

Act of Jihad # 4

Coming to the defense of people who have more political, monetary, and social value than black women. This includes, black men, white women, biracial people, people/women of color etc. (an especially fun project for a lot of black women) . (Note I did not include white men because I find it very rare for a black women to ever defend a white man.)

This is entirely different from the the first ones because while 1,2, and 3 nclude actions  #4 is more about the vocal stance that black women take.

Examples?

#1 Black woman who take it upon themselves to be the caretaker of white feminists. I think it’s pretty apparent by now that the feminist movement was NOT designed for black women and from the apathy excerciseed in the entire movement those women have no problems using whatever racial privilege they have to their advantage. And yet black women are also some of the most vocal people peddling the “poor white women” who are treated like crap by the “evil white man”. These black women are usually the ones pushing the “well when they are freed it will “trickle down” to us black women or that “by extension” we will be covered baloney.

This includes the black women who take it upon themselves to defend multi/bi racial people or “women of color” as if we are all on the same boat.  There was one perverse article on clutch asking if Zoe Saldana  was was being “reverse discriminated against” because they got a well known bi racial woman to play Nina Simone. For anyone who has every seen either of them they look nothing alike.

Here is where the jihading comes in…. These black women are quick to eat up the “We’re all being oppressed the same way.” or believe certain women when they claim they are “black too”  But it’s always funny but these same women are always given the advantage when being cast in movies clearly for “full black” women.    Not only in this case with Nina Simone but think about some of the questionable casting choices that were made when thinking about turning Awkard Black Girl into a real show. The choices were people who were noticeably light skinned (the creator and woman who plays Jay is not!)

All of the Unity talk goes out the window as these women take the  desirable roles while black women get stuck in the sidelines.(See butch black women in upcoming movie Pitch Perfect)

Not only have these women handed over their roles to women that don’t even look like them, they’ve cemented their place as the Jezebel, mammy, whore, butch, etc, etc. (think how Amber Riley on glee is fat and single while Santana ( the Latina) is sexy, skinny, and popular.

Note I am not saying that these women purposely do it. Why wouldn’t Zoe Saldana take a role, no matter how unfair the casting? What I am saying if these women are free to make choices beneficial to them. Why does that not apply to other women. Why should I help them get more power in the media when I have none? Why should I accept the trickle down when I could have the whole bottle of water?

Don’t be fooled:  Most of these women can and will get on without you. They don’t need your help and they will choose what is best for them. Not only that but why give more ammunition to people who are already powerful? Doesn’t make much sense.
Act of Jihad #5 :Supporting Any and Every black Man, simply because he has black skin and a penis.

I honestly don’t get this one. Truly. Because the sexism in the black community dating back to the pre civil rights movement shows that reciprocity has never been big among black men to black women. And not only have many black men been against the feminist movement there has never much concern for black women at all coming from that direction. Instead and definitely in  recent years I’ve seen a stream of hate and mocking derision directed at black women as a whole.

Yet and still black women jihad every day to prove their love and worth to men who COULD NOT CARE LESS.

They’ve even gone so far to defend rapists and molesters like R Kelly, abusers like Chris Brown and Mike, Criminals, (See little wayne, 5o cents  or any other rapper) or any other rapper for that matter.  Or killers, drug, dealers, and people who just plain hate, take advantage and hurt  black women.

I have said before that there was a vocal amount of black women who agreed with Ashley Judd about rap music but there were A LOT who thought it wasn’t right to stereotype black men and rap music.

At the time all I could do was SMH because those women don’t seem to realize that when black men get the freedom to say whatever and do whatever they want , usually it has adverse reactions for black women.  WE are the ones who deal with the ADVERSE affects of rap on our image. We are the ones defending criminal black men, who when set free   are going to wreak havoc on the lives of black women.

There was a post a long time ago entitled “white law enforcement is the only thing keeping black women safe” or something like that. (Can’t remember which BWE blogger it was., If you know, tell me.)
And it was completely true. While black women are mollycoddling these deviant black men once they get free YOU are their intended target. You are living in their neighborhoods. YOU are their NEXT victim. You will be the one raped! You will be the one someone runs a train on. You will be the one someone harasses in the street. You will be the next person abused by your boyfriend and YOU will be the next one murdered.  It is insane to defend the criminals and CREEPS who are going to in turn hurt you.  Absolutely cookoo.

 

Act of Jihad #6: Supporting anything in the media that has black people in it simply because they are black people.

Too many black women think that having brown skin in a movie requires them to spend THEIR hard earned money.

Black women are just running to pay for Tyler Perry flicks, see redtails-escque movies or anything that shows black people. They are just soooo afraid that if they don’t they’ll never see black people again. Or they feel they have to stick together even when this obviously hurts them.

The black women are likely to see nothing wrong with movies like Django unchained or any other “historical” black movie (see recent what about are daughters post on this and some of the commenters will make you gag!) They are soo happy to give support to the same media machine making them look like bitches and buffoons.  They spend their money on rap downloads and Madea while lamenting their bad image in the media and the world at large. But don’t see the connection.

I am not going to support Tyler Perry when I KNOW that he is going to make me  look stupid. I am not going to spend money on movie tickets to “help brotha out” when  I know that I’m going to be the sacrificial lamb (and somebody always has to be) when I know that I will end up bloodied and broken. I’m not going to help him get success at my expense to say that a black person has made it. He can suffer just like I am. I don’t care if he EVER finds success.

 

Act of Jihad #7 Black women who think that negative images are positive.

These black women think that playing the “fat” role or anything deviant from “normal” society is progress. But little do they realize that they are the only ones ever put in these rolls (Think upcoming movie pitch perfect with black woman who is a “butch” lesbian”. Or think Precious)

These dumb black women absolutely coo along with white feminists at change and progress while these white feminists sit back and take the good roles that don’t fuck with their image.   Of course these women are happy. You’re the sacraficial lamb while they get to rest on their laurels and reap the benefits of you looking like an idiot.

 

Act of Jihad#8  Adopting negative behavior as “culture” to save race.

What I mean is black women who join in the foray and claim certain activities as black. This includes the dummies claiming rap as their own when the Ashley Judd scandal hit the fan or the women who join the “you’re not acting black” bandwagon, or the women who take on urban life and images as the “collective” for all black women.

These black women are so desperate to be considered “black” that they don’t see that these negative images are the very things holding them back. Because in “real” life no other race of people claims bad behavior because they’re afraid of being labelled “classist or bougie.”  I see very few white people claim the Jersey Shore or Honey Boo Boo as their own and yet black women have yet to get the memo. It is not classist to have standards or want better for yourself. Don’t let ANYONE tell you otherwise.

 

I hope that these few things give you insight into possible way that you may or may not be hurting yourself. Even if you don’t do these things, there may be people you know who do. I would advise getting as far away from these women as possible because there are always going to be causalities and that may include you..